| Location | London |
| Age | 53 years |
| Cause of Death | Heart Attack |
| Date of Birth | 13/11/1954 |
| Date of Death | 26/08/2008 |
| Visitors | 694 since 11/01/2009 |
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My dad 'left' us after 5 days in hospital for an operation to repair his bowel / bladder which had perfurated.. He become ill 36 hours after the operation. He was taken in for a second operation on the 25th August for to try and save him but after major organ failure, his heart eventually gave up at 4.10pm on 26th August 2008.
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Dad,
Although I cry and wish you was here but know you are in peace with your mother, father and sister. You are watching over us each day, I know you are.
If my dad could of helped you he would off, he had friends around him who cared for him...
Dad, I will never forget you .. I miss you everyday!
My Dad passed on 26th August 2008, he was finally at rest on 20th December 2008 when we was at rest with his Mother, my nana and his father, my Grandad In Macroom.
Tom is Missed by Son David, Daughter Lorna, Grandchildren Harry and Davey, Brothers Michael, George, Sister Suse. Family & friends in Ireland. And extended family wherever they maybe!
Missed by Friends in Northolt.
xxx
3 years
Not one day gets easier, I miss you... I wish I had been a better daugther and saw you more! Weird, I drove past your house a year to the day I last saw you there last week.I can not believe its been 3 years, I miss you more than words can say!! Love you so much, I wish the pain would heal of losing you.... I know you wouldnt want me to be sad but I really can not help.
Miss you so much xxx
So its fathers day on Sunday.... and your not here for me to visit you, buy you a card, buy you a gift.... :-( on sunday it would have been 3 years since we were all in the same room together for your day.
I can not believe in August it will be 3 years... I miss you each and every single day.. more today than yesterday but less than tomorrow!!! .... xxx
I say the same thing over and over again but I Miss you so much! I took for granted that you were there one moment then the next you were gone, then I can no longer speak or see you, Whenever I drive near Harrow I feel as though I should be on my way to see you! xxx
I miss you dad so much.. I havent been here much as I feel to much sadness when I think about you. I just wish I could see you one more time....
I would give up every single christmas if it meant seeing you one more time!
Love you so much xxxx
Miss you
Hey Dad,
Even though I do not come here everyday to leave you a message, does not mean I do not stop thinking about you.
Had my op as you prob well know as I asked you to look after me, I was worried but I am ok... Glad I had it done.
I do miss you everyday and still wish I could pick the phone up to say hello to you.
I try not to listen to the sad songs anymore as it only gets me worst.
miss you xx
Dad,
It only seems like yesterday I was at the hospital bedside holding your hand! :-( I dont think I truly have learnt how to deal with this, I just wanna call you, I still have your numbers in my phone as the moment I delete them, that means I delete you! Not ready for that yet, I dont think I ever will be.
Im still really happy with everything else in my life! In fact life is perfect, I just realise before I was fooling myself with life!
Miss you soo much.. I really want to come visit you in Ireland this year! xx
Missing you
Hey ya Dad,
Sorry for not writing to you much sooner, I guess I just let life get in the way, for that Im sorry!
Missing you lots lately, Can not believe in August it will be 2 years!!! Miss you asking me 'have I gone off on any travels lately'
I do finally feel happy again, thats because I do have some great people in my life who I love dearly!
I really thought about you the other night and I just wanted to pick the phone up to you,
missing you like mad! x
It was a year ago yesterday we said our final goodbyes when we left you in Ireland! I hope you are happy wherever you are dad. second christmas without you in our lives! :( .. It still feels weird, I want to pick the phone up to you and just say hello! Its all I want in life, is to say 'Hi'
Birthday
Happy birthday Dad, its the second one youve been gone! Miss you each and everyday!!
Love you xxx

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